Invincible You with Dr. Alex Avila

IS MONEY YOUR FRIEND?: HOW TO CREATE AN ABUNDANCE MENTALITY AND ATTRACT RICHES INTO YOUR LIFE

DEVELOP THE BLAST OFF MENTALITY: ESCAPE FROM YOUR NEGATIVE MENTAL GRAVITY AND SOAR INTO YOUR EXCELLENCE

Do you sometimes feel stuck in life? No matter how hard you try, you can’t quite achieve what you desire. If that’s the case for you, then there is good news. As we discussed on the “Invincible You” podcast, you can develop the blast-off mentality—a winning mindset of perseverance, motivation, and success. Here’s what you need to do:

Focus Your Energy on Your Most Important Purpose:  Every day, concentrate on doing the one most important thing each day, whether it’s related to your career, finances, health, or relationships. Do micro-tasks daily—smaller  tasks you can complete in a short period of time—which bring you closer to your desired goals.   

Maintain a Mindset of Completion:  When you have a mindset of completion, you realize that if something is worth starting, it’s worth finishing. Complete that one important task you have been putting off. Make the challenging phone call, send that critical email, have the difficult conversation. When you finish what you start, you will have a great feeling of accomplishment and purpose.

Remember that Action is Distilled Intent.  Your action or behavior is what matters in the end, not what you say or think about doing. To distill something is to get to its essential elements. Ask yourself: Did I achieve my goals today? If you didn’t, then you need to cut out everything that is extraneous and unnecessary to completing your objectives. Instead, focus on doing what you told yourself you would do—fulfilling your heart's desires. 

Yes, you can develop a blast-off mentality and achieve your dreams. All you have to do is focus your energy on your most important purpose, develop a mindset of completion, and remember that action is distilled intent. By doing these things you will actualize your potential, and you will blast-off into that rarified air of success, love, and joy.

WOULD YOU MARRY YOUR FIANCE IF HE HAD WEEKS TO LIVE? AN AMAZING TRUE STORY OF TURNING PAIN INTO POWER AND LOSS INTO LOVE

When you face a terrible catastrophe or setback, how do you find the strength to get your life back on track? We received inspiration for how to overcome obstacles and tragedies from our guest on Invincible You, Ashley Jackson. Ashley is the founder of Timeless Dream Events (timelessdreamevents.com), an event planning company for chronically/terminally ill people and their loved ones. Facing the imminent death of her fiancé a few months after he proposed to her at Disneyworld, Ashley turned her pain into power and taught us amazing lessons of love and resilience. Here is what we learned from Ashley.

*Take a Cemetery Tour and Find Your Purpose: When Ashley was a teenager, her dad took her to a cemetery and told her: “Here lie many people of untapped potential and lost dreams.” This shook up Ashley and taught her the lesson that we don’t have time to waste in life. While we’re alive we need to find our purpose and pursue our dreams so we have no regrets when we end up in the cemetery.  Start today to actualize your dreams and fulfill your potential. Don’t wait until later because later may never come.

*Write a letter to your fear (terminal illness, loss of love or finances, death): When her fiancé (future husband), Troy, was diagnosed with cancer, she was fearful, angry, and sad.  To express her feelings, she wrote a letter to “Cancer.” She learned that. although it’s a terrible disease, Cancer taught her some great lessons, including “realizing who my real friends are,” and “As a caretaker who sacrifices a lot for others, I don’t need to feel guilty about taking care of my own needs.” In the same way, you can write a letter to your biggest fear, expressing your feelings, and seeing what you can learn from that fear.

*Find your pain point and create a Miracle of the Heart:  After taking care of her husband, Troy, during his recovery from cancer, Ashley made an amazing discovery. She learned that her pain point (grieving over her husband’s cancer) could be turned into a great blessing when she started Timeless Dream Events (event services for chronically/terminally ill people).  She realized that she could combine her loves (event planning and traveling) with her previous suffering experience (her husband’s diagnosis) to create a great business to help others.  You can follow Ashley’s example by finding the pain point in your life—what has caused you the most suffering—and write down ways you can turn that pain into something positive.  Perhaps, you can create a business or project to help others with the same problem. Maybe, you can learn how to connect with others in a more compassionate way.  Or, you can develop more confidence and patience to make the changes in your life that you want to make.

When Troy proposed to Ashley at Disneyworld, he asked, “Can we chase our dreams together, forever?” His beautiful proposal was then followed by the pain and suffering of his cancer diagnosis, and finally by their triumph as a happily married couple. In the same way, you can recover from the pain and loss of the past to reach your dreams.  Start by finding your purpose, writing a letter to your fear, and turning your pain point into a Miracle of the Heart. By doing this, you will be able to find your purpose and achieve your destiny of love, success, and happiness.

YOUR INVINCIBILITY IMPRINT: HOW TO MAKE YOUR MIND A SUPERCOMPUTER OF SUCCESS AND POWER

This week on our Invincible You Podcast, we learned some of the secrets of reengineering your mind to think of success and contribution. Here are some of the keys you need to know to create a mental invincibility imprint and make your mind a supercomputer of success and power:

 

*Do One Right Act.  Create momentum by doing one small act each day. If you’re shy, look at one person in the eye today, and smile. If you’re scared of going broke, do your research and make a small investment that will pay off in the long run. If you procrastinate, make one decision quickly (rapidly pick your Starbucks in the morning).

*Be a Mental Pathmaker: Create healthy habits.  If, for example, you want to get in shape, start by working out 15 minutes every day. The time you spend working out will grow as you see and feel the benefits.  Do the same for other areas of your life—keep repeating productive actions to create empowering habits.  

*Expand Your Mindset:  Always look to grow and improve. Offer to help other people. Learn one new thing each day. Think more positive thoughts. Tell the people you care about that you love them. Instead of dwelling on negative news, find good news to share with others.

Yes, you can imprint invincibility into your mind.  Start by doing one right act, become a mental pathmaker, and expand your mindset. Soon, you will be well on your way to developing a mentality of success, love, and power.

DEVELOP THE MIND OF PROSPERITY: BRING UNLIMITED RICHES INTO YOUR LIFE ON A DAILY BASIS

Would you like to have unlimited riches—money, health, and love—on a daily basis? Now you can by following the tips we discussed on the Invincible You Podcast:

 

*See Money as Loving Energy (Loving Money Energy, LME).    Think of money as a positive energy force that you can circulate to help people and improve the world.

*Give LME without expectations.  Give to charity and help people with your money without expecting anything in return, not even a “thank you” or acknowledgement. When you do this, the money will flow back to you—often from unexpected sources.

*Do Business to create bonds of cheery affinity. Don’t worry if you overpay a merchant or service provider. Visualize that you are helping their family or business. By expressing your money generosity into the Universe, the money will come back to you.

*Make Money Your Friend: Offer Value. Instead of chasing or fearing money, make money your friend by offering value in whatever you do. Offer more value than you’re paid for and money will gladly come to visit you.  

Yes, you can have Unlimited Riches. All you have to do is give LME (Loving Money Energy) without expectation, do business to create bonds of cheery affinity, and make money your friend. Do these things, and love, abundance, and riches will be yours.

WEALTH WITHOUT LIMITS: YOUR MENTAL PATHWAY TO ULTIMATE RICHES

Would you like to be rich beyond your wildest dreams? Riches can consist of money and material possessions, as well as inner riches such as love, happiness, and health. On our new platform and podcast, Invincible You, we discussed the secrets of immense wealth and personal riches, as follows:

*Think of Money as Loving Money Energy (LME).  There is a revolutionary way to think about money. Money is really Loving Energy—a positive energy force that travels between human beings to make the world a better place. When you do something you love for work, you receive money in the form of loving energy in appreciation for the work you’ve done. Then, you take that money and purchase goods and services—you give your loving energy in appreciation for the value you receive from another person or entity. In this new way of thinking, money is not just a vehicle of exchange for goods and services.  It is a powerful force for good that can enhance lives and bring positive emotions into the world.

*Vanquish the Mind of Scarcity.  Unfortunately, many people grow up with a Mind of Scarcity—believing that there is not enough money or prosperity to go around. From their parents or others, they may learn money scarcity phrases like “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” or “Too much work, too little money.”  In reality, money can grow greatly if you know how to work, save, and invest properly.  You can also get to the point where your work doesn’t seem like work (you love it), and money flows abundantly from the work you do. Start today to write down your money-limiting ideas and thoughts in a journal or pad, and recognize how much these thoughts have kept you from achieving your true financial and psychological potential.

*Cultivate the Mind of Abundance.  The Mind of Abundance is the belief that you have(will have) all of the money and success you need. When you have the Mind of Abundance, you will boldly start new businesses and engage in new ventures and lifestyle changes because you know that you will obtain the resources you need to accomplish your goals. To develop the Mind of Abundance, visualize that the money supply in the world is constantly growing. Further visualize that, each day, there are more great ideas, inventions, and innovations. Also, imagine that every day, there are improved health conditions, better relationships, and more love in the world. Finally, imagine that you have so much money that you can afford to give away plenty. You know that you will always have more in store for yourself, your loved ones, and those people you can help. You understand that money, like everything else in the world, is constantly growing and expanding. You can give more because you have more.

Yes, you can have wealth without limits.  You can achieve this exalted state by thinking of money as loving energy, vanquishing the Mind of Scarcity, and cultivating your Mind of Abundance.  When you do this, you will unleash the floodgates of riches and prosperity in every area of your life: financial, relational, spiritual, and personal development.  Enjoy the riches of the world. They are yours.